Love language test

Love language test: what it is for

The love language test shows how you feel most loved. There are 20 statements to answer on an agreement scale, and the result ranks the five languages: words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service and physical touch.

You see your primary language, the second one and a chart with the score for each, to compare with the person you love.

How to use

1. Answer the 20 statements honestly.
2. See your primary language and the chart.
3. Share it and ask the other person to take it too.

When to use it

• Understanding how you like to receive affection.
• Comparing your result with your partner's.
• Improving communication in your relationship.

Frequently asked questions

What are the 5 love languages?

It is an idea popularized by counselor Gary Chapman: each person perceives love mainly in one way, among words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service and physical touch.

What is the point of knowing my language?

To ask for what makes a difference to you and to understand what makes a difference to the person you love. Many mismatches happen because each person shows love in their own language, not in the other's.

Is this the official test?

No. It is our own questionnaire, inspired by the concept of the five languages, for reflection and conversation between partners. It is not a validated psychological instrument.

Is it really free?

Yes, 100% free. No sign-up, no subscription and no usage limits. All Tools123 are free.

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